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It didn't take long for the hospital staff to conclude that Chad and David were more devoted than many parents who passed through the unit.

Sometime that afternoon, the hospital learned through consultations with Sissy's obstetrician that she was carrying the babies for her brother and his partner. The neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) at Arlington Memorial had never had a pair of gay men as parents. It didn't sit right with some of the staff, and there were whispers in the corridors and at the nurses' station.

Because the babies' blood vessels were so thin, the risk of brain hemorrhage was high. Any stimulation to their systems a change in temperature, say, or even a bout of crying could cause massive bleeding.

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"Oh, my God, I'm a parent," he thought. "It's no longer theoretical."

The staff was careful, however, not to show any disapproval. And even before Surmay's documents were signed, the hospital treated Chad and David as the rightful parents. When Chad arrived that evening, they snipped the ID bracelet off Jay's wrist and gave it to him.

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All Chad could do was smile. His daughter had an adorable ski slope nose. His son was wiggling his arm. They both had long blond eyelashes, and rounded chins like David.

or rub. For the moment, his sadness and fear were washed away by the instant connection he felt to his children.

days, the cusp of viability, the twins could be expected to careen from one life threatening crisis to the next. Conditions could change in a snap, so a good night did not necessarily mean that a good morning would follow.

Sissy's obstetrician spoke to Chad on Saturday morning and said he was baffled. Though twin pregnancies were risky, everything had looked perfect. Infection could cause this kind of rapid labor, but there were no signs of it. He could remember one case like this in 16 years. They would probably never know what happened, he said.

"Just live," he begged the babies. When you get older, he told them, "you can throw up in my car all you want to. Just live."

Gastrointestinal problems also were common because their organs were not yet fully functional. Asher's blood sugar measurements were high, and he was being treated with insulin. The nurses would try to keep the babies sedated and still, hoping they would gain weight.

They slept in Sissy's room one in a chair, one on the floor and kept vigil in the NICU late at night. Chad asked so many questions the staff eventually supplied him with medical texts. They were loving to each other and comforting to Sissy, even under stressful circumstances that drove many couples apart. Both of their mothers had flown in to provide family support.

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David felt the same sensation when he arrived a few hours later. The babies had stabilized, and their color looked better than he expected. He couldn't believe how immediately his emotions were captured by these two tiny beings.

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If they could get through the first 72 hours, the odds would improve. The good news was that this NICU didn't lose many babies, maybe two or three a year.

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As they entered the NICU, Jay warned Chad that his first look at his children might be unsettling. Breathing and feeding tubes snaked into their mouths, and lines ran into their hands and umbilical stents. Monitors were taped to their torsos and feet. White cloth patches shielded their eyes from phototherapy lights. Yellow plastic discs protected their ears from noise that could cause their blood pressure to spike.

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